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Pregnancy and Birth Affirmations for Every Stage

Calming pregnancy affirmations for each trimester, labor and birth, and the first weeks after, plus how to use them alongside the care of your midwife or doctor.

By the Ananda team4 min read

Pregnancy can bring joy, wonder and an unexpected amount of worry: about the baby’s health, your changing body, the birth itself and whether you’ll be a good parent. Worry during pregnancy is extremely common, and it’s not a sign that anything is wrong with you.

Affirmations are a gentle way to steady your mind through it all. Many people use them in pregnancy and in birth preparation classes. Here are affirmations for every stage, and how to use them well.

Affirmations support emotional wellbeing. They aren’t a substitute for medical care. Always follow the advice of your midwife, doctor or healthcare team, and tell them if you’re worried about anything.

Why calm matters during pregnancy

Research reviews, including one by Christine Dunkel Schetter and Lynlee Tanner, describe anxiety, depression and stress as common during pregnancy, and linked to outcomes for both parent and baby. That’s not meant to add one more worry. It’s a reason to treat your emotional health as part of prenatal care, and to reach out for support when you need it.

Affirmations can’t remove worry, but they can give your mind something steady to come back to, which is why many childbirth classes teach them alongside breathing and relaxation.

How to use pregnancy affirmations

  • Pick three to five that feel true for you right now.
  • Pair them with slow breathing. Breathe in, then say the affirmation on the out-breath.
  • Put them where you’ll see them: your phone, the bathroom mirror or your hospital bag.
  • Share them with your birth partner, who can read them to you during labor.
  • Keep them honest. “I can handle this one contraction at a time” usually helps more than “Birth will be painless.”

Affirmations for early pregnancy

  1. My body knows how to grow this baby.
  2. I’m doing everything I can, and that’s enough.
  3. It’s okay to feel excited and scared at the same time.
  4. I take each day, and each appointment, as it comes.
  5. I’m allowed to rest when I’m tired.
  6. I’m already caring for my baby by caring for myself.

Affirmations for your changing body

  1. My body is changing to make room for new life.
  2. I’m grateful for everything my body is doing right now.
  3. My worth isn’t measured by the scale.
  4. I listen to what my body needs.
  5. Every stretch mark is part of a story.

Affirmations for worry and anxiety

  1. I can’t control everything, and I can control how I care for myself.
  2. My questions are welcome. I’ll ask my care team.
  3. I’m not alone. I have support around me.
  4. Worry is a feeling, not a prediction.
  5. I breathe in calm and breathe out tension.
  6. I trust myself to cope with whatever comes.

More: Affirmations for Anxiety

Affirmations for labor and birth

  1. I can do this one breath at a time.
  2. Each contraction brings me closer to meeting my baby.
  3. My body is strong and capable.
  4. I can ask for what I need.
  5. I’m surrounded by people who are here to help me.
  6. However my baby arrives, I’m doing something amazing.
  7. I let go of the plan and trust the process.
  8. I’m safe, I’m supported, and I’m ready.

Affirmations for after the birth

  1. I’m learning my baby, and my baby is learning me.
  2. There’s no perfect parent, only a loving one.
  3. It’s okay to ask for help, often.
  4. I’m healing, and healing takes time.
  5. Sleep deprivation is temporary. Love is lasting.
  6. I’m still me, and I’m becoming a parent too.
  7. Feeding my baby, however I do it, is caring for my baby.

Affirmations for partners

  1. I’m here, and my support matters.
  2. I can stay calm and steady for us both.
  3. I’m learning to be a parent alongside them.
  4. Asking how they’re doing is one of the most useful things I can do.

When affirmations aren’t enough

Some sadness and tearfulness in the first couple of weeks after birth (often called the “baby blues”) is common. But if low mood, anxiety or intrusive thoughts last longer than two weeks, feel overwhelming, or include thoughts of harming yourself or your baby, please contact your midwife, doctor or a postnatal support line straight away. Perinatal depression and anxiety are common and treatable, and asking for help is the right thing to do.

How Ananda can help

Ananda writes affirmations from your real life: what you’ve already come through, and what you’re facing now. Tell it about your pregnancy hopes and worries, choose Daily Affirmation or Family issue mode, and get seven affirmations you can read on hard nights or listen to read aloud in your own language.

Sources

  • Dunkel Schetter, C., & Tanner, L. (2012). Anxiety, depression and stress in pregnancy: Implications for mothers, children, research, and practice. Current Opinion in Psychiatry, 25(2), 141–148.